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I decided I never wanted to be in that situation again—so badly wanting to give a sexual partner something they want me to give them, but absolutely unable to. Or that you have to be some sort of superhuman or freak to enjoy it. A big part of fisting is intuition and instinct. But there are a few things you can do to make your fisting experiences more enjoyable. Here are my best tips on taking care of your ass if you want to try fisting. Start trying out different brands of lube with a toy to see which ones you like. A lot of people use J-Lube. J-Lube comes as a concentrated powder that you mix with an amount of water that gives you the consistency you want.
It can be a bitch to get the recipe right. You can find advice for how best to mix it if you search online. Look here for more info about lubes. Very few people are going to be able to take a fist without first training their ass. You have two muscles that need to relax in order for you to take anything up your butt: your internal and external anal sphincters. Using a long, tapered toy that starts small but increases in width the higher it goes up your butt will help your butt get used to larger sizes. To train for my first fist I found a plug-shaped toy that I used every other day if not every day to stretch my hole.
Your top needs to know that your muscles need to be relaxed before they can proceed. They should play with you before trying to fist you so that you have time to relax. You may need to be patient—use the time to keep stretching your hole, it will pay off when you play. Any sex comes with the possibility of sexually transmitted infections, and fisting is no exception.
However, fisting rarely happens in isolation from other sex. You should still talk about your HIV status with your partner and what precautions are appropriate to prevent HIV transmission. Other STIs including hepatitis C might be more likely to be passed between partners in blood or anal mucous on the fist.
Unlike HIV, hep C is a hardy virus that can hang around for a long time. If you give your toys a thoroughly good wash you should be good, but never share lube between bottoms. If you are fisting in groups, keep hold of your own lube for your own ass. Other STIs like gonorrhea can also be transmitted through ass play because gonorrhea can be spread through touch. They can help increase smoothness around the fingernail but should never be a substitute for well-trimmed and smoothly filed nails.
For some, gloves can heighten the erotic thrill, for others they can reduce the feeling of intimacy. Gloves can reduce the risk of transmitting STIs, particularly because it is quite normal for people to have minor cuts on their hands. Find more info about wearing gloves for fisting here. We already talked about how part of the attraction of fisting and other kinds of kink is the ability to push boundaries.
People feel compelled to push themselves as far as they can go. But you might want to moderate how far you push yourself—especially when you are first starting out. Get consent from your partner and make sure your partner hears your consent. Communication is important—especially if this is the first time for either of you.
How big is too big you ask? Well there are limits. Listen to your body, and pay attention so that you avoid pain. Some people choose to douche before getting fucked. Some tops are less tolerant about shit showing up during play than others. And most bottoms are far more worried about shit showing up than they actually need to be. And some guys are particularly into that. There are a few reasons why I prefer not to have shit be part of my fisting experience. That said, one thing I do is to put in a large butt plug about a half hour before fisting.
Pushing everything out before you fist, without having to go crazy with the douching, is a strategy that sometimes works for me. Tops: You want your bottom to be happy and relaxed. Stressing out over your bottom not being clean enough will ruin the experience for both of you. Clean yourself up with toilet paper or jump in the shower and squirt a little water up your hole to rinse out. Fisting with people you have chemistry with can be an incredible experience. Take that fist, listen to your body, and go with it!
Get info about everything from douching to fissures with this series on all things anal. Visit sfaf. Anal health. Expert advice: 8 steps for first-time fisters. By Dolan Wolf. July 19, 5 Minute Read. About the author. Dolan Wolf Dolan Wolf is an adult film star, kink educator, instigator and quiet revolutionary. Share this Post. Related Stories. Advocacy Community Our voices. California activists celebrate historic victories for older people living with HIV.
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25 Tips for Your First Fist