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Dating can really bum you out. If you've been searching for love for some time with no luck, you may start feeling like it's completely hopeless. But according to experts, giving up on love isn't a great a option, especially if its something you really want it. But there's really no use. For instance, online dating has made it easier to find people to date. But it's also made it easier for people to burnout or ghost others like it's no big deal.
Overall, dating can sure do a on your self-confidence. But as tough as things can be, you shouldn't let that get you down. If you think that you're destined to [be] alone, you may. You have to think about yourself through the lens of what you WANT. It's important to hope and think about what's possible. If you don't, you're more likely to stay stuck in a "reality" that isn't what you want. So if you're feeling like you're ready to give up on love, here are some things you should keep in mind.
Even if a date doesn't go the way you want or had hoped, you can still learn something from every person you meet. You really don't have to learn anything life-changing either. You may discover a new restaurant that you really enjoy or a new way of looking at things.
Each relationship or date that "fails" gets you one step closer to your person. Although you may have to kiss a couple of frogs to reach them, Wright says, you'll learn more about what you like and don't like. You'll stop wasting time on people who won't give you the love you deserve.
Besides, when it comes to love, there is no "destination. According to Wright, you're always going to be working on yourself. That doesn't stop when you're in a relationship. A relationship isn't the end goal, so enjoy things as they are right now. When you're about ready to give up on love, it's so tempting to consult a psychic or a tarot reader to give you some hope that things will turn around.
But as Davida Rappaport , spiritual counselor and relationship expert, tells Bustle, that's probably the last thing you should do. For anyone "waiting" on someone to be ready , this one's for you. According to Rappaport, waiting for someone, no matter how long it takes is perfectly fine. Trust your intuition and know that timing is everything.
Trust it and you will not be disappointed. Sparks can be misleading. So it's not a bad idea to trust in the slow burn. If you want to find love, you do have to put yourself out there in order to meet new people. You also have to be OK with letting go of people and situations that no longer serve you. It's tough to let go of someone you think is your soulmate.
But maybe, you're not together for a good reason. According to Rappaport, too many times people are in good relationships, meet someone who they believe is their soulmate, and want to leave someone they love for someone new. Also, be mindful of your negative thoughts. If you believe in the Law of Attraction, thinking you're never going to find someone will make that a reality. It will require making a choice to be open and vulnerable with other people. It may also require you to face rejection.
But the effort you put into it will be worth it in the end. It's so easy to get down on yourself when nothing in the love department ever pans out. But don't be hard on yourself at all. Finding love may be tough. But don't feel discouraged. Nobody's "destined" to be alone forever unless you actually believe it. If you want a relationship and put in the effort, you will get it. So don't give up and keep going. By Kristine Fellizar.Hoping to find love again
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